What MEN want!

Okay ladies so Mel Gibson let out the secret in the year 2000 of what Women want but it's been 11 years since and us women are still left in the dark as to what MEN want!!! So here it is at Its a girl thing 11...11 years later. We are here to solve that very question. What do men want?? Today, a normal day at work and i got thinking about what i would write about in my next post. Then the light bulb above my quiffed hair FLASHED! Lets interview the men at work around me. So i got out my pen and note book and that's what i did. Here is a conversation between some guys i work with. Ever wanted to be that fly on the wall in the boys locker room?? Well now you can...Well without being a fly. *awkward face* 



Some of the guys did want to be known as anonymous Initials on the internet so i have respected their wish. 


1. Who should pay on the 1st date?
I : THE GUY!
M : You should split it, she should at least offer to pay then it's his decision if he insists on treating her. 
Adil: The guy obviously
B: The guy should pay
Spikey: If she offered it shows she's not spoilt but the guy should pay.


2. What Turns you OFF a girl? 




 I : Facial hair. What's that about? 
 B : MO Mouth Odour 
 I : When a girl swears too much
 Adil : If she has a bad laugh, i went on a date with a girl once, everything was going well until she laughed.
Spikey: but her laugh would make you laugh which is good. It's a turn off when a girl tries too hard. 
*Everyone agrees*
Adil: When she wears too much makeup
Spikey: Or when she's being overly nice
I: Its a good thing if she's nice
I: Its a turn off when they smell of B.O


3. Okay so what are your Turn Ons? 
Adil *Eager to answer* BREASTS, quote me on that
*Everyone laughs*
Spikey: If a girl supports United, i'm messing it's definitely her personality and a good dress sense.  
Adil: I'm joking her personality, you have to be able to click with her and hold a conversation otherwise what's the point? It doesnt matter about looks but if she's pretty thats a bonus.
I: You need to be able to have a good banter
M: a good sense of humour is a turn on
I: If she was dumb it would be funny for a while but she has to be able to understand my jokes


4. What should a girl wear on a 1st date and what does her dress sense say about her? 
Adil: How much respect shes got for herself
Spikey: Whether she's got class. If she came to see me in PVC she wouldnt exactly be classy
*Everyone laughs*
I: I would run a mile if she came like that. If a girl shows too much skin that's tacky


5. What do guys think after their 1st kiss with a girl?
Spikey: If it was good! *he laughs* i would want to see her again.
Adil: I would just be happy to have kissed her if it was a girl i really liked.
We don't think anything really. 


6. A girl talks about marriage on the 1st date.
Spikey: *shakes his head and smiles* I would go home
Adil: I would tell HER to go home
B: She's desperate
I: *smiles and shakes his head* i'd tell her to *he laughs and doesnt complete the sentence*


We are all thankful he didn't. Then it started getting really busy at work so i didn't get to ask anymore curious questions.




Okay ladies hope that helped. If you have any questions you would like to be asked in the next banter with the boys, do let me know.


Until next time. Take care. Lots of love. Don't forget to follow us.


xoxo Its a girl thing


Mahaim

It's A Date ;)

Hey Hey Hey Dolls!!!!!!!

Stressed About Your Hair?Your Outfit?What He Will Think?His Job?..Relax!! Your Dinner's Getting Cold!!

So todays post is on a topic which come on girlies we have all been through at some point,going on a date and confused about EVERYTHING!! okay this does not mean it has to be your boyfriend it could always be just a guy mate!!





So First things first your outfit!!now this can be difficult as many things need to be taken into consideration..where your going..what your doing..indoors?outdoors? Heels?Hair Down/up?

Now lets look at 3 main situations that you are most likely to land your self in:

Dinner: Posh Restaurant



Sequin Flame Dress By Topshop £150.00
Black jersey dress with amazing embellishment,
pricey I know but defoz one to give more then
a compliment ;)
(online or in store)


























River Island light pink one shoulder grecian dress £59.99
Hit Of  G-L-A-M-O-U-R!totally Lurve the side detail!

Quiz Coral and Silver Ponte 1 Sleeve Dress £24.99
Chiffon Sleeve Dress With Yet Again dazzling Shoulder work.
BARGAIN!

Shopping:

 When going shopping comfort is a huge must!!!you always want to shop cosy but in style!a maxi dress is a very easy outfit, team this with a denim jacket some bangles and a leather satchel and your good to shop til you drop!

River island £24.99 brown print waisted maxi dress



New Look £16.99!!!

River Island: navy sinead o'connell satchel bag £34.99

















Cinema: Casual But Flirty




Miss Selfridge Black Twill Drop Pocket Jacket
£40.00



Miss Selfridge Macrami Fringe Top £28.00
how Cute is this?!



Top shop £36.00 MOTO Black Leigh Skinny Jeans
(We own These and we cant even Justify How unbelievbly COSY they are!!)

With the outfit done..come on now that takes a little stress of..still worrying?well below are 3 things not to worry about on a first date:

Dont Worry about..wether the date "means something"
sometimes a cigar is just a cigar-and a date is just a date.enjoy the food.engage in the banter.have fun!
every time you wonder whether this date is going to be the start of something new,or whether he'll call you afterwards is time your not appreciating the pretty candle lit room and the fact that hes trying to make you laugh! (Laugh)

Dont worry about..whether he wants a family.
okay so it is important that you have similar goals but trying to suss out a mans life goals on a first date will be transparent and self-defeating.leave this conversation at least until youve seen his lousy impression of mr bean!

Dont Worry about..paying for dinner at the place he picked.
Its the first date, and he asked, hes paying.why? because he wants to impress you.okay im not one to stereo type but I think when the bill comes the guy should grab it.and when he does do, reach for your wallet its a nice gesture.But you wont need it : P

Okay so worries over?now lets have a look as to what guys notice first about you..

Luscious Locks
"if a girls hair looks like it smells good,then Istart thinking what it would be like to bury my face in it"

A Big Laugh
"It shows that shes having a good time" remember if a guy can make a girl laugh he can make her do anything!

Your Pucker
"Her lips are one of the first places my eyes go to" (vaseline should be your bff girls!)

A Sultry Strut
"You cant help but check out a girl who walks with a purpose,like she knows where shes going"

Perfect Posture
"It sends a message that the girl is comfortable with her body and proud of it"

So I hope this has helped all the girlies out there, I promise with these little tips handy he'll be on his knees before you know it : P remember to always be yourself ..

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Lots of Love..

Sumaiya xoxo