What MEN want!

Okay ladies so Mel Gibson let out the secret in the year 2000 of what Women want but it's been 11 years since and us women are still left in the dark as to what MEN want!!! So here it is at Its a girl thing 11...11 years later. We are here to solve that very question. What do men want?? Today, a normal day at work and i got thinking about what i would write about in my next post. Then the light bulb above my quiffed hair FLASHED! Lets interview the men at work around me. So i got out my pen and note book and that's what i did. Here is a conversation between some guys i work with. Ever wanted to be that fly on the wall in the boys locker room?? Well now you can...Well without being a fly. *awkward face* 



Some of the guys did want to be known as anonymous Initials on the internet so i have respected their wish. 


1. Who should pay on the 1st date?
I : THE GUY!
M : You should split it, she should at least offer to pay then it's his decision if he insists on treating her. 
Adil: The guy obviously
B: The guy should pay
Spikey: If she offered it shows she's not spoilt but the guy should pay.


2. What Turns you OFF a girl? 




 I : Facial hair. What's that about? 
 B : MO Mouth Odour 
 I : When a girl swears too much
 Adil : If she has a bad laugh, i went on a date with a girl once, everything was going well until she laughed.
Spikey: but her laugh would make you laugh which is good. It's a turn off when a girl tries too hard. 
*Everyone agrees*
Adil: When she wears too much makeup
Spikey: Or when she's being overly nice
I: Its a good thing if she's nice
I: Its a turn off when they smell of B.O


3. Okay so what are your Turn Ons? 
Adil *Eager to answer* BREASTS, quote me on that
*Everyone laughs*
Spikey: If a girl supports United, i'm messing it's definitely her personality and a good dress sense.  
Adil: I'm joking her personality, you have to be able to click with her and hold a conversation otherwise what's the point? It doesnt matter about looks but if she's pretty thats a bonus.
I: You need to be able to have a good banter
M: a good sense of humour is a turn on
I: If she was dumb it would be funny for a while but she has to be able to understand my jokes


4. What should a girl wear on a 1st date and what does her dress sense say about her? 
Adil: How much respect shes got for herself
Spikey: Whether she's got class. If she came to see me in PVC she wouldnt exactly be classy
*Everyone laughs*
I: I would run a mile if she came like that. If a girl shows too much skin that's tacky


5. What do guys think after their 1st kiss with a girl?
Spikey: If it was good! *he laughs* i would want to see her again.
Adil: I would just be happy to have kissed her if it was a girl i really liked.
We don't think anything really. 


6. A girl talks about marriage on the 1st date.
Spikey: *shakes his head and smiles* I would go home
Adil: I would tell HER to go home
B: She's desperate
I: *smiles and shakes his head* i'd tell her to *he laughs and doesnt complete the sentence*


We are all thankful he didn't. Then it started getting really busy at work so i didn't get to ask anymore curious questions.




Okay ladies hope that helped. If you have any questions you would like to be asked in the next banter with the boys, do let me know.


Until next time. Take care. Lots of love. Don't forget to follow us.


xoxo Its a girl thing


Mahaim