Heyyy everyoneeeee!!! So recently i read this article in the Glamour magazine that i just had to share with you. When i was 10 years old i honestly thought that when i would get to the age of 20 all the immaturity etc would have ended. Oh god i was wrong. Don't get me wrong i am 100% happy with my life and current situation...but i do understand situations around me and advice i am constantly giving people around me. So i read this article that i just had to share. So come on girls Lets hear it for Sisterhood!
"I don't need a psychology degree to tell you that when women tear other women to shreds with their gossip and talk it is due to insecurity from fear that they themselves are failing in some way to be beautiful, to be successful, to buy the right pair of jeans. But getting high off the fumes of our sisters misfortunes is a
cheap buzz...don't be drunk on it." - Glamour Magazine.
So here's a few steps to becoming the women who want to be admired and looked up to.
1. Challenge yourself to be honest about what you think
2. Understand that success is not a zero-sum game. Someone elses success is not your loss.
3. Stop doing things that feed your own worst ideas about yourself. Maybe its lurking on facebook out of envy while eating pizza. Stop doing things to lower your own self esteem. Being kinder to yourself will help you be kinder to other people.
4. Before you tear other women down use a simple trick ti imagine what you would feel like if you heard those same words from the mouth of your daughter, niece, sister or any young girl. Because if you keep it up that's exactly what will happen.
5. Have a problem with another woman? Be adult and handle it with respect and dignity. The timeless old school way. Talk to her.
6. Face your own insecurities. Learn to love and accept yourself the way you are and you will automatically be able to love other women.
Lets stick together girls. Its a girl thing
Mahaim xoxo
Saturday, June 18, 2011
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